Get Real, Get Married!

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“It took me 34 years of soul searching and self exploration to find my calling. Mentoring singles and couples – this is my passion. In the simplest terms I’m a dating coach for the marriage minded single looking to soon make the most important decision in their life.”

Hi I’m Aleeza Ben Shalom and I’m located in Philadelphia, but with technology I coach clients all over the world. I have successfully trained several wonderful coaches. I love our team! And, if you haven’t yet seen it, check out my book Get Real, Get Married.

I’ve come to realize that if you know who you are and what you want, I can help you get it. I love working with those who are looking for their soulmate.

I began my coaching journey as a matchmaker on a dating website. Matchmaking was nice, but it wasn’t exactly what I wanted to do. I started receiving calls from people even when I hadn’t been the one to set them up – they just wanted my advice and support in searching for their soulmates. That was when it became clear to me that I love coaching. To date about 60 coaching clients are now married, a few are engaged and I hope to hear good news from a few more soon!

Today, I work full time with a focus on coaching older singles to get over their hurdles and under the chuppah. Are you ready? Do you want a dating coach?


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Check out the interview by Kim Chakanetsa, BBC The Conversation featuring Aleeza Ben Shalom
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