Get Real, Get Married!

About Aleeza

Wife, Mother, Mentor, Speaker, Author

“It took me 34 years of soul searching and self exploration to find my passion, and I found it. Mentoring singles and couples – this is my passion.”

“In the simplest terms I’m a singles expert, dating coach and matchmaker for the Jewish marriage minded single looking to soon make the most important decision in their life.”

Known as the Marriage Minded Mentor, Aleeza Ben Shalom is a dynamic dating coach and matchmaker. Also an inspirational speaker and writer, her book, Get Real Get Married, is available on Amazon, and her monthly articles reach an international audience. She has been featured on NPR, in the Huffington PostPhiladelphia News, Yated Ne’eman, and the Jewish Exponent. Aleeza has spoken for various organizations including Chazaq, Aish, The Dvash Project (NYC), Jewish Learning Experience (at Wash U), MEOR, NCSY, WOW (Baltimore), Presentense, and Hadassah.


People from all over the world schedule private sessions with Aleeza. And the results show; as her now-married clients can attest, finding your soulmate and dating from the inside out works. In addition to all this, Aleeza has developed a program, Marriage Minded Mentor Academy, which trains matchmakers and dating coaches to tap into their inner wisdom and skills for the benefit of their clients.


Aleeza’s commitment to creating marriages that endure the test of time is surpassed only by her passion for nurturing her own family as a dedicated wife and loving mother of five children.


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