Are you feeling out of order? Maybe a little broken? Do you just want a little “free time” to sort yourself out? Take it!
We all need a break sometimes, but in today’s world it has become so much harder to convince ourselves to take one. The thought seems to be that if you want to accomplish a specific goal – like getting married – you need to be busy making it happen, you need to be rushing after it. But that assumes that getting married is like finishing a homework assignment. What we‘re missing is that the quickest way to get married can be to cash in on free time and take care of ourselves. Getting yourself to a place where you’re happy and relaxed puts you on a much better track to getting married than any amount of shopping
or networking could.
How much time will you need to recharge? It could be two days, two weeks, two months…you’re the only one who knows what you need. So take a minute to think about the time you need, and let yourself feel the relief in knowing that taking time for yourself may be the quickest way to find your soulmate.
Still feel that you’re in too much of a rush to take a breather? Sleep on it. Even a mini-break can bring you more clarity…which might change your mind about how important a longer break could be.